I am sure that you are sick and tired of how many times you heard the question of how to get back an ex girlfriend until now. Almost all men that ended their relationship and then realized that they still miss and love their ex end up in with this question in mind. The main problem is the fact that many of those people are not careful and they don’t give a lot of attention of the things that they do in order to win their ex back.
It is not a good thing to do to go with the flow because it is very likely to scare your girlfriend and have her gone for good. You must understand that in the real life you have just one shot to win her and her love back. You must understand that your actions will make her to be back with you for a long time or to never want to see you again.
I did a list with some techniques that you can try to use if you really wish to be loved by her again:
Say you are sorry:
You must say her that you are sorry. Before that, you must feel sorry genuinely. It is not important if she or you decided to end your relationship. You need to put all your pride aside and tell her that you are really sorry for everything that you did wrong in the entire relationship. You are going to ask her to forgive you for all the things that you did from the beginning of the relationship until the end. You don’t have to buy her a gift or flowers, your apologies will be enough if they are sincere. You don’t have to bribe her.
Say you are fine with the break up:
Say to her that you are fine with the breakup. Don’t think that you will lie to her because it is not true. You truly are ok with that because I am sure that in your heart you know that you will soon have her back in your arms. You need to show her that your life is going on even if she is not around you anymore. This is a strong but subtle way of telling her that you can live your life without her too. When she will hear that you will see how much things will change.
Restrain yourself from calling her all the time:
You don’t have to call her all the time. I know that this is a hard thing to be done but you must try to stick with it because it is a very important part of the entire plan. You must have pride and don’t beg her to be back with you because she will run away forever if you do that. You don’t have to seem desperate. Maintain your self-esteem. You must be a valuable person is her eyes. Don’t call her every time you feel the need to do it!
It is very important to have fun also. Although you feel like you are not able to do that, I tell you for sure that you are. Your life is not over! Spend time with your friends and try to make some new friends also. You will see that you will trust in yourself more than usual and that will help you a lot in having her back. The time will also fly!
If you took these steps and followed them exactly, you can send her a message asking her how she is. The rest of the talk will come along soon after that. You must be aware of the fact that you must avoid doing bad things because this can be fatal for your relationship.