Get back your ex girlfriend if you fight fairly
I will tell one thing that I am sure that you thought about in one moment: you need to perfect some social skills in order to get back with your ex girlfriend. You will do this only if you want it. In order to have her back in your arms, you need to solve your problems without arguing and that is a big step that has to be done. If you often have fights with her and you see that she can’t stop, you must follow some rules that will help you to start your relationship all over again.
I know that the perfect relationship is seen only in movies (or this is how you feel) when you and her don’t say bad things to each other. We have to admit that we have a life that is full of stress and it is unavoidable to achieve being part of a perfect relationship.
We are all aware of the fact that argues can’t be avoided but the point is that we are able to do something to minimize them as much as we can. Fighting fairly is the thing that everyone avoids because they think that the things won’t be good for them if they do that. You must put some boundaries and you will sure be able to obtain some good things after fighting fairly.
You must try to expose your arguments in discussions that are nicely carried. The entire thing depends on two people: your and her. You can try to adopt some simple guidelines and you will see that your arguments will do less harm when you try to expose them in a discussion.
I will write you some steps that will help you to prevent the end of your relationship:
Don’t lead things to personal issues. If you argue, try to argue only for the fact and not lead things to one personal direction. You must get back when you see that the discussion becomes too personal.
You must try to offer her a way back all the time. You don’t have to crush her; you just want a discussion with her. You must leave room for her too because she must say her points of view also. Your point is not to humiliate your ex. You will see that the favor that you make to her will be returned.
You must highlight the fact that you respect her a lot. You must make her feel like you are carefully with her and her feelings. You must also try to agree on what he says. You must obtain a mutual solution. You must try to highlight the things that are matching in you two because highlighting the things that are different won’t help you at all.
You both have to work in order for these become a success. You must try to follow your guidelines and not lead your argue in one bad thing.